Jim wrote:

> Cindy wrote:
> 
>>
>> My psychology professor told me a very interesting thing.  "You want 
>> to be the number one cheerleader for your partner.  Otherwise, someone 
>> else will."
>>
> 
> My psych prof told me something similar when I was at Nichidai:
> 
> "You want to be the number one hostess for your partner.  Otherwise,
> someone else will."
> 
> Or maybe he said "schoolgirl", not hostess.
> 
> We were drunk at the time.

I notice the position and duty are changeable.