Cindy wrote:
> Jim wrote:
> 
>> Cindy wrote:
>>
>>>
>>> Yeah, I want to know the characteristics of "nutters".  Can someone 
>>> explain?  
>>
>>
>>
>> This is easy.  A nutter is someone who acts irrationally (to you).
>>
>> The key part is the "(to you)".
> 
> 
> Aha, the nutter wants your attention.
> 
>> If their behavior seems normal to you, they're not a nutter.
> 
> 
> If there is some sort of chemistry between the two, I can do nothing 
> about it.  It must be much much later to cool down to be able to look 
> back and analyze their silly acts, then they may be able to judge that 
> they were nutters.
> 

Sorry about my bad explanation.  I meant to write:

 From your viewpoint, if the person seems normal, they aren't nuts.

Now another person looking at the two of you might think you are 
psychos, but the two of you in your own little world see nothing
unusual.

For example, a woman like Whitney Houston from my point of view is
a nutter.  Getting beaten by your spouse, then bailing them out of
jail while singing with a once-beautiful voice, now trashed by drug use
and constant throttlings, are not the actions of a sane person.

But to her, it must seem pretty normal, otherwise she'd get out of
the relationship.  Or a sane person would, wouldn't they?

-Jim