Cindy wrote:
> 
> My psychology professor told me a very interesting thing.  "You want to 
> be the number one cheerleader for your partner.  Otherwise, someone else 
> will."
> 

My psych prof told me something similar when I was at Nichidai:

"You want to be the number one hostess for your partner.  Otherwise,
someone else will."

Or maybe he said "schoolgirl", not hostess.

We were drunk at the time.

-Jim