A ticket out of chinia preferably to USA most chinese people would love this
gift of freedom.
"chris" <rrufiange@cfl.rr.com> wrote in message
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> As in all cultures, it'll depend on her religion (or lack thereof), the
> cultural norms, and other factors.
>
> I do know that in asian cultures the concepts we hold in the west aren't
> exactly the same for them.  They tend to display open affection less in
> public.  This doesn't mean they're not affectionate, just reserve their
> passion for a more private setting.
>
> I've known many sexually open Chinese women, but cannot say for certain if
> this is reflected in a younger girl as well.  Your best bet would be to
try
> "the bases", and see what happens.  That way if you try to move toward
> something she isn't ready for, she can make her feelings clear.  Don't
take
> my word for this though.
>
> My girl is 19, so very close to yours in age.  However she goes to college
> rather than work.  She displays affection for me, but it isn't the
sometimes
> flirty innuendo we might be used to here in the west.  Be prepared for
some
> degree of formality, atleast in the early stages.
>
> Courtship is definately a good idea.  Get to know her.  If you plan on
> marrying this girl, learn as much about her as possible.  Sex before
> marriage depends on the girl, and her family.  China is more "western" in
> some ways than we know.  If she lives with her parents, or spends any
degree
> of time with family, you'll want to get to know them too.
> Chinese families are very close.
>
> One observation I've made.  They talk alot about the differences in
culture.
> I personally believe it is more as a "comfort wall".  Once a person feels
> comfortable with you, she won't think of you as a "foreigner", so she will
> be more at ease.  If you get to know her, cater to her feelings and needs,
> she will open up to you.
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