Haluk Skywalker wrote:

> "Cindy" <cindyduet@attb.com>, iletide sunu yazdi
> news:4e3Lb.779352$Fm2.757299@attbi_s04...
> 
>>Ian J Cottee wrote:
>>
>>
>>>Any marriage has its own share of unique issues to be resolved. Marriage
>>>between cultures adds its own problems - but plenty of positives as
>>>well.
>>
>>When you have to go through an argument with your spouse, it's a lonely
>>battle because nobody is your side.  You may win the argument, but you
>>may lose your spouse.
>>
> 
> 
> Isn't it the case for all marriages?
> 

All marriages suffer without fail.  If you and your spouse speak 
different languages, there will be additional impediment or 
misunderstanding and stress.  Too much expectation, sense of control, 
sense of freedom, power, feelings, and cultural issues are always coming 
along with you no matter where you go.  Don't you agree?

When you were dating, your girlfriend had a hidden agenda whatever that 
was.  Therefore, she didn't mind sacrificing her time, money, and 
freedom.  After getting married, she started to reclaim the things she 
had sacrificed for you.  I bet you are doing the same to her.  And each 
other's freedom builds up in each spouse's system, and it piles up and 
piles up until it blows up.  This sort of explosion can be triggered by 
an utterly stupidly simple thing like a sock on the floor.