So sorry to hear of your troubles....I hope everything works out for
the best. Just keep in mind, if he's a good man, he is thinking about
you just as much as you are him and thus, he IS worth waiting for...If
that's NOT the case and he is out having a great time without you,
making no effort to fly you to Japan to visit and share all it's beauty
then, GIRLFRIEND, YOU NEED A NEW MAN!.....Again I wish you the best and
remember that true love knows no distance, no time and no boundries. If
you truly love eachother equally than your relationship will withstand
this, if not there is true love elsewhere in the world for you and
anyone who truly wants it. In the meantime, if he loves you he wants
you to be happy, the best thing you can do to honor this is to do
things that make you happy while he's gone. Relationships can be
difficult, especially when jobs, money and kids, etc enter the picture.
Just think though, with your son gone and your husband gone you have a
certain freedom and with less responsibility maybe now is the time to
do everything and anything you never had time to do! In a way I am a
little envious of you...I have so little time for myself and there is
always so much to do and it seems like by the time I get done helping
everyone else I'm usually too tired to do anything for
me!............Zoe