Ernest Schaal wrote:
> Ron Hitler Barrassi wrote 
> > Ernest Schaal wrote:
> >>  Ron Hitler Barrassi wrote 
> >>> Ernest Schaal wrote:
> >>>>  Edward Mills at wrote 
> >>>>>  Walter Canady wrote:

> >>>>>> I'm really looking forward to a 5 day trip to Nagoya in April...

> >>>>> Why are you excited about coming to Japan?

> >>>> If Japan is so bad, what is keeping you here?

> >>> the ball and chain.

> >> If she loves you, she will probably be willing to go wherever you go.

> > why doesn't that work the other way?
> 
> It does. Where you live is a compromise, with both parties agreeing. My
> point was that if you REALLY hated Japan that much, and if your wife REALLY
> loves you, this is something where something could be worked out. If you
> REALLY hate Japan and she REALLY hates your country, there are plenty of
> other places to live.

Madrid, for instance.