Hi, I signal you the Italian Group/Mailing-List:
"Finite Element Method - Analysis"
(Virtual community for the Simulation and the Numerical Modelling)
of discussion of FEA (Finite Element Analysis)
and CFD (Computational Fluid Dynamics) for applications of
civil and industrial engineering
and problems physics - mathematical:

http://it.groups.yahoo.com/group/fem-analysis/

The group and' formed also from researchers and university teachers.
And' very pleasant also your registration to the group!
Peace, the best regards ;-)
Thanks
Gabriele Martufi (Italy)
http://it.geocities.com/gabrielemartufi/