Path: ccsf.homeunix.org!ccsf.homeunix.org!news1.wakwak.com!nf1.xephion.ne.jp!onion.ish.org!onodera-news!newsfeed.media.kyoto-u.ac.jp!newsfeed.icl.net!newsfeed.fjserv.net!newspump.monmouth.com!newspeer.monmouth.com!newshosting.com!news-xfer2.atl.newshosting.com!diablo.voicenet.com!cycny01.gnilink.net!cyclone1.gnilink.net!wn14feed!worldnet.att.net!bgtnsc05-news.ops.worldnet.att.net.POSTED!not-for-mail From: "ifignow" Newsgroups: fj.life.in-japan References: <3FE9BB77.ACDCE60B@yahoo.co.jp> <3FEAC071.63925D9F@yahoo.co.jp> <251220032306010642%222ggg@spam.really.sucks> <3FEC3C66.96E1EB5D@yahoo.co.jp> Subject: Re: Where to meet Japanese girls? Lines: 36 MIME-Version: 1.0 Content-Type: text/plain; charset="iso-2022-jp" Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit X-Priority: 3 X-MSMail-Priority: Normal X-Newsreader: Microsoft Outlook Express 6.00.2800.1158 X-MimeOLE: Produced By Microsoft MimeOLE V6.00.2800.1165 Message-ID: Date: Fri, 26 Dec 2003 16:36:48 GMT NNTP-Posting-Host: 165.76.191.254 X-Complaints-To: abuse@worldnet.att.net X-Trace: bgtnsc05-news.ops.worldnet.att.net 1072456608 165.76.191.254 (Fri, 26 Dec 2003 16:36:48 GMT) NNTP-Posting-Date: Fri, 26 Dec 2003 16:36:48 GMT Organization: AT&T Worldnet Xref: ccsf.homeunix.org fj.life.in-japan:9275 "Eric Takabayashi" wrote in message news:3FEC3C66.96E1EB5D@yahoo.co.jp... > > What if I have met plenty of strangers in the USA before, and succeeded in > > creating relationships? > That's good for you, and I will admit to surprise that net meetings can produce > such good results. Just last night I was reading the Onion.... It's soooo easy to spot liars on the net. I've read books on police interviewing techniques, ways to spot liars. When someone tells me they are a "doctor", I ask them questions about physiology to see if they are real. I've caught lots of liars that way. To the contrary, I find the net a very useful place to discover people's true intentions. When I meet the right person on the net, I've found that I can attain a deeper level of trust than is possible in the shallow settings of bars, churches, or even any kind of physical reality. I can set very high standards to meet exactly who I am looking for. I haven't been disappointed with anyone I've met from the net, because I know exactly who they are before I meet them. > But you say you are only here for less than three more weeks, you seem to hate > the place, and you do not like what you see in entertainment districts or bars. > Nor do you want be cut loose on your family friends or acquaintances. > Just what are you looking for? I guess this is the only situation in which I've had to meet new people through non-internet methods. I've been looking for ways in which non-internet methods are better, but so far haven't found any. How can people possibly accomplish anything?