I have had conversations with Japanese American men in the past
and enjoyed
them very much. Recently, A Japanese man came here for a three week job
and was very kind and interested in art, music, education, But not
once did he ask any of the men he was working with where he
could find women. Instead, he talked about his wife in Japan, about
their hobbies, how many children they have, how he would like
to bring them with him when he goes on business trips.
   The men who work for the same company went to Japan recently
and after work went out drinking and searching for women. Japanese
women, Fililina women, any willing to give them a good time while
they are away from their loving wives.
   So who really are the sexists??? I am not saying all men here are,
nor am I saying all men there are not.
   Also, I believe the Japanese women handle their men's finances
and run the businesses a lot of the time over there.
   To me, the only women getting bad treatment are the ones who
are standing in the bars asking men, "Buy me drink?"
   right? wrong?
Oh, and by the way, for all you married men who enjoy a cold
beer after a hard days work and are in japan...There are vending
machines full of beer, There are stores. Get six, go up to your
room, dial your wifes number and have a few with her.
And if you can't call her, and you still insist you have a few drinks,
put a movie in your portable DVD, and drink with Clint Eastwood
or something. :o)  When you get home, you'll feel like a better man.
TXZZ wrote:
> Really.  There are less marriage pressures(contrary to popular belief),
> are generally happier, and in terms of mundane life (versus  success
> oriented corporate life which does not contribute to the freedom or
> happines of the average person), I think japanese women have more
> freedom.
>
> Why do westerners say japanese are sexist?  Is it because they are sick
> bigots who hate healthy societies?