Path: ccsf.homeunix.org!CALA-MUZIK!news.moat.net!border2.nntp.dca.giganews.com!nntp.giganews.com!postnews.google.com!z14g2000cwz.googlegroups.com!not-for-mail From: "John W." Newsgroups: fj.life.in-japan,sci.lang.japan Subject: Re: Japanese study... Date: 2 Oct 2005 17:45:38 -0700 Organization: http://groups.google.com Lines: 28 Message-ID: <1128300338.254658.256040@z14g2000cwz.googlegroups.com> References: <4338dd87$0$6771$afc38c87@news.optusnet.com.au> <1127812067.149484.128750@g43g2000cwa.googlegroups.com> <433b0bcc$0$22741$afc38c87@news.optusnet.com.au> <1127952722.207631.301190@f14g2000cwb.googlegroups.com> <433c8492$0$17445$afc38c87@news.optusnet.com.au> <1128045377.068822.33120@g44g2000cwa.googlegroups.com> <433cb4dc$0$11682$afc38c87@news.optusnet.com.au> <1128066450.616389.253460@g44g2000cwa.googlegroups.com> <1128079872.658404.103620@g43g2000cwa.googlegroups.com> <1128142967.229703.100120@z14g2000cwz.googlegroups.com> NNTP-Posting-Host: 129.59.6.77 Mime-Version: 1.0 Content-Type: text/plain; charset="iso-8859-1" X-Trace: posting.google.com 1128300343 14853 127.0.0.1 (3 Oct 2005 00:45:43 GMT) X-Complaints-To: groups-abuse@google.com NNTP-Posting-Date: Mon, 3 Oct 2005 00:45:43 +0000 (UTC) In-Reply-To: User-Agent: G2/0.2 X-HTTP-UserAgent: Mozilla/4.0 (compatible; MSIE 6.0; Windows 98; Win 9x 4.90),gzip(gfe),gzip(gfe) Complaints-To: groups-abuse@google.com Injection-Info: z14g2000cwz.googlegroups.com; posting-host=129.59.6.77; posting-account=IGBrEwwAAABPCeBilOMHVky8YEHrk0Ub Xref: ccsf.homeunix.org fj.life.in-japan:29822 necoandjeff wrote: > People in Nagoya have a bad tendency > to stare down foreigners (and otherwise treat them like complete freaks) in > a way that people in Tokyo do not. In my experience people in Tokyo tend to look down on everyone who isn't from Tokyo. Or at least they ignore them. > And half the time they don't even have > the decency to look away when you look back at them. They just continue > staring like they're at the zoo looking into the gorilla cage. The shame! I hate it when I'm ogling some Japanese dude and he doesn't have the manners to not look me in the eye. > When I go to > someplace like Itoigawa, I exect that kind of behavior, and it doesn't > bother me. When I go to the fourth largest city in the country, with a not > so insignificant population of foreigners, I don't. What makes a hick in my > mind has a lot to do with his or her bility to accept someone different than > they are and treat them with respect, whether that person lives in the most > remote corner of Louisiana or the middle of New York City. > So it's respectful to not look someone in the eye. Right? John W.