Path: ccsf.homeunix.org!news.moat.net!newsgate.cistron.nl!transit4.news.xs4all.nl!post.news.xs4all.nl!not-for-mail Newsgroups: fj.life.in-japan From: Wenslauw Subject: Re: Calling out lurkers References: <9t8ib1th84spnlgmoe518gng70dd2c2d8t@4ax.com> <11bipmr8d673kdd@news.supernews.com> <1119548769.084333.221100@g47g2000cwa.googlegroups.com> Organization: Stranger Things Message-ID: User-Agent: slrn/0.9.8.1 (Linux) Date: 23 Jun 2005 18:17:05 GMT Lines: 26 NNTP-Posting-Host: 82.73.226.15 X-Trace: 1119550625 news.xs4all.nl 37751 wenslauw/[::ffff:82.73.226.15]:48608 X-Complaints-To: abuse@xs4all.nl Xref: ccsf.homeunix.org fj.life.in-japan:28054 On 2005-06-23, John W. wrote: > Wenslauw wrote: >> On 2005-06-22, Kevin Wayne Williams wrote: >> > Who else posts regularly or semi-regularly, but doesn't physically live >> > there? >> >> This made me wonder how often I have posted here. Google told me it's 91 >> times. I started in 1999. That's when I married a Japanese woman. >> I wanted to learn more about Japan (oh, the naivete), so I started looking >> for newsgroups on Japan. It was/is a hilarious group. So I've been >> lurking here on and off. >> >> Wenslauw (divorcing) >> > Out of curiosity, do you find you post more when things are going rough > with the wife? There for awhile I noticed that was the case with me, > though now it's just when I'm stressed in general. Yes. We've actually been apart for 2 years. Just hadn't divorced yet. A little over 2 weeks ago my gf ended the relationship. Now I'm all over the Internet again. During the bad parts of the marriage I was online a lot more too. -- Die lewe is alleen draaglik as 'n mens 'n bietjie dronk is. - Uys Krige